About Love…

‘all is fair in love and war’… or so the saying goes… but honestly, do u believe that? I don’t… not ever since about a week ago…
another thing I no longer believe in when it comes to love is that it pays to be persistent…
the fact is… you can’t, I repeat, you CAN’T, make someone fall in love with you… no matter how much you say you love the person, no matter how many gifts you buy, no matter how much space you give, no matter how long you wait, no matter what you do… the fact is… YOU CANNOT MAKE A PERSON LOVE YOU…
hey, some of you might already be disagreeing but well… unfortunately for you, this is MY page, n the only opinions that matter are MINE *evil laugh*…
but hey, hear me out… if persistence works and that love is fair… why is it that so many of our friends end up not being with the person they’ve lost their hearts to… why is it that after all the wait, all the effort… all they get is to watch the guy or girl end up in the arms of another… what’s worse is, in some cases, the guy/girl falls for another who didn’t even have to do a thing to win their attention…
that kind of feeling sucks… n I’m sure a lot of u have been there… for those who have… I understand how u feel… for those who haven’t… I wish u never have to arrive there…
I thought about this after a conversation I had with my Dinda, Pajil n Carl… don't u just love hanging out with friends?...
Personally… I now believe that in order for any of our efforts of winning the hearts of a guy/girl to work… the first n most important thing is… there has got to be ATTRACTION… from attraction, comes FEELINGS… once u have this… u can screw up big time n still get the guy/girl…
*sigh* no wonder the girls always say, “sorry la, I appreciate everything u’ve done, u’re sweet n nice n all, but I just don’t have any feelings for u…” *dang* what they really mean must be, "u're just not attractive enough for me!"... well.. at least we should give them credit for being polite...
hmm… I guess my wish for today is for all of u reading this to be able to get together with the ones u love n long for… in case that doesn’t come true, I pray the heartache stops soon n that u find someone new who appreciates u for who u r…

Life lesson : I’ve learnt that the people you care most about in life are taken away from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away. The real pains in the arse are permanent…

I shall go back to my so called life now….