Playing It Safe…
a good friend once came to me and said… "the relationship’s going nowhere, the guy treats u like crap, u don’t feel appreciated, he always drops u for other stuff… why do some people keep holding on? Why is it so hard to get out of the relationship?"...
Initially, being the cocky person I am… my first reaction was… “well, it’s because people are actually dumb, n they choose to live in this self-created n self-imposed reality where they hope that one day things might change for the better”…*darth vader song*
But anyway… seriously… why? I think…it’s because we all have this thing called a sense of comfort being in a relationship… regardless of how good or bad it is… I mean, it’s not easy to just drop something u’ve hold onto for a while (in some cases even years *ahem*) n step up to someone n start anew… of course when I say this it applies to serious relationships… or people who’ve been waiting to be in a relationship… so this rules out all the flirting n games guys n girls play…
When I say comfort… it’s not about feeling happy…it’s more about content… u’re just okay with it… hey, I’m not saying that waiting for the person to change n start appreciating u is totally bullshit… but I guess after hearing a lot of stories n being shot down a few times myself… I guess we’ve got to start thinking about ourselves in a new light…. we can wait… but sometimes it’ll take too long and by the time they realize it, boobs would have started sagging (applicable to girls n a few guys) and supposed muscle would have turned to fat (applicable arguably to almost all guys, provided they had the body in the first place)… We’ve got to give ourselves more credit… come on people… we are worth something… n we deserve to at least get into a relationship that’s fulfilling… of course there are people who don’t but we’ll save that for another time okay…
My wish for today, that all of u realize that u’re all worthwhile… and that u have the strength to walk away n start fresh after crashing n burning…
Life lesson (which someone learnt n told me): You can’t make someone love you, you can just keep stalking them and hope they give in… well… it could work… you never know… we humans are of course… 'unpredictable'...
Back to reality now… *Austyn Power’s theme song*
Initially, being the cocky person I am… my first reaction was… “well, it’s because people are actually dumb, n they choose to live in this self-created n self-imposed reality where they hope that one day things might change for the better”…*darth vader song*
But anyway… seriously… why? I think…it’s because we all have this thing called a sense of comfort being in a relationship… regardless of how good or bad it is… I mean, it’s not easy to just drop something u’ve hold onto for a while (in some cases even years *ahem*) n step up to someone n start anew… of course when I say this it applies to serious relationships… or people who’ve been waiting to be in a relationship… so this rules out all the flirting n games guys n girls play…
When I say comfort… it’s not about feeling happy…it’s more about content… u’re just okay with it… hey, I’m not saying that waiting for the person to change n start appreciating u is totally bullshit… but I guess after hearing a lot of stories n being shot down a few times myself… I guess we’ve got to start thinking about ourselves in a new light…. we can wait… but sometimes it’ll take too long and by the time they realize it, boobs would have started sagging (applicable to girls n a few guys) and supposed muscle would have turned to fat (applicable arguably to almost all guys, provided they had the body in the first place)… We’ve got to give ourselves more credit… come on people… we are worth something… n we deserve to at least get into a relationship that’s fulfilling… of course there are people who don’t but we’ll save that for another time okay…
My wish for today, that all of u realize that u’re all worthwhile… and that u have the strength to walk away n start fresh after crashing n burning…
Life lesson (which someone learnt n told me): You can’t make someone love you, you can just keep stalking them and hope they give in… well… it could work… you never know… we humans are of course… 'unpredictable'...
Back to reality now… *Austyn Power’s theme song*
posted by dr_luv82 | 7:50 PM
1 Comments:
mas,
if someone hinted u or start giving u attention means she likes u. try to get to know her. it's really hard to find someone who likes us right? just try ok :) and dont be too picky. she is worth something if not everything.
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